Hunting For A Willing Mistress Is Hard Work
I just recently got a comment from a sissy about asking a vanilla lady (maybe) about being his/her Mistress. Now this is pretty tricky since the relationship was forged upon friendship and advice. Because the vanilla lady knows about Paulina’s crossdressing , she could very well be open to training. Asking subtly could very well work providing she knows about sissy/Mistress dynamic. If it is embarked upon, there may be a slippery slope within the friendship. I have always said that friendship lasts much longer than a sexual dynamic. Both is best so who knows. Hunting for a willing Mistress is the ideal but who knows, because she may become the willing Mistress.
A Few Tips On Femdom Likes
Now some tips for you who would like to turn a regular girl into a Mistress. Develop your girlie intuition is number one. How does she react to your being enfemme. Is she fascinated with the transformation? Does she look repulsed or aloof. Be a little bold and ask if she would like to accompany you on a lingerie shopping spree to get her advice. If she does be sure to buy her something from there. If she begins to ask about feminization, discuss the submissive end on the subject. She may be very interested in the subtle act of feminization and maybe the more aggressive sissification. Does she seem to have a power personality or is she shy. A power personality makes for a great Femdom.
Patience
Hunting for a willing Mistress is a challenge. Whatever you do, tread carefully and be sweet and non threatening. Most of all be the friend she met with a bonus. A sissy is unique because she will have a friend and a project. In summary, the project is you and how to make you into the passable girl that you aspire to be.
I do have friend who’s dressed me up/taken pictures of me with her phone. She’s given me her old bras, She asked if I dressed up for therapeutic reasons and I told her I did. I’ve not told her that I dress up to get hard and off and I don’t want to offend her 🙁 she’s accepted this in telling me I need to as it’s who I am and become. She has me using same facial lotions and creams she uses along with perfumes mixed with lotions on my cheeks. Also she’s selling women’s clothes and told me to buy them from her instead of her friend. She’s married but told me not to worry about her husband or care what others think anymore. There’s no sex involved as she’s married and has business to run which I totally understand and respect. I’ve had hugs but never a kiss. I was hoping for harmless lipstick kisses on my cheeks but have said anything as I don’t want to ruin relationships with her. I did tell her I want to have her take control over me and with her doing this I think she has. What do you think? I’ve never been kissed by a girl and want her to do this just once. I realize I’m not boyfriend material anymore because of my enjoyment of wearing bras panties/women’s clothes. I feel having her doing this is way go. I want her to be more mistressy with me but afraid to as as I’m not sure her reaction will be. I’ve not told her I have phone mistresses in my feminization either. Do you think I should tell her all of this?
In due time MAYBE. Let her be the one to “suggest” things. Patience my dear 🙂
I am Ms Erin-now she’s selling women’s clothes and said she wants me to buy them from her, I was told I’m her sissy boy and have feeling I’ll be buying them from her all the time. she will take pictures of me with her phone and then take me out dressed up. She said she’s going to have monthly wine/with her bringing other women to show off clothes she’s selling and said she wants me there when she does these shows. She said not to worry about her husband or care what others think anymore, she’s right about this. She’s made me her cuckold cream puff sissy boy. Honestly this is relationship I want to have with her and it’s happening as she has me wrapped around her fingers and her nails firmly dug into me with no intention of ever letting me go.