How To Be A Dominatrix Requires More Study Than You Realize. A Phone Domme Must Study All Of The Tools She Can Find At Her Disposal: Remember The Dominant’s Credo: Safe Sane Consensual
Let’s start way at the beginning. Pick up the thought how to be a dominatrix and realize just the thought should be transforming. It’s the woman in power thing. A tomboy transforms into a woman sometime. The skills you learned back then should be the foundation of all your skills. Climbing that tree can lead to tying the rope that trails all the way up that branch, then grab some vintage fiction like Venus in Furs. This is the non fiction fiction, not the stuff you get on the internet. One boy describes it as canned dommes and McDoms.The old writings came from those who were repressed and seeking around the chamber, barefoot and yearning to be brandishing whips and tied to the posts. Tickled with feathers, nipples stressed with clamps. Read all you can find when you begin to learn how to be a dominatrix. A good start after the classics, after you have studied the Victorian wear and felt the vibe of epoch, go on to great fiction such as The Marketplace Series by Laura Antoniou. You will learn of protocol, scenes, and important behavior of a Mistress/slave dynamic.
You Must Find Your Submissives, Your Mentors, But Where. I Will Guide You
On how to be a dominatrix is once realized, this is your ultimate lifestyle, you begin to seek out lifestyle activities, lifestyle friends and mentors. The munch to meet realtime slaves. The realization is now you are a Femdom. To be beautiful is not necessary but it is an asset. To have a perfect ass in a tight leather corset, and loving the uniform of the dominant helps. Begin to become more open to the fetishes of others, understand the psychology and the need to perform it, and own it. Lifestyle friends at a dungeon is a necessity. Here you will meet people who truly want to perform their kink of choice. In a non judgemental setting the dominatrix will grow exponentially, feel empowered , meet her sub for life, have a collaring ceremony and learn the art of caning. The cane is the Queen of all D/s tools to control a slave, to make a slave bow and kneel to the Femdom’s demands. Are you a glitteratti? This means you will be a fashionista in rubber and leather. Prepare to spend on fetish wear. Keep mindful rubber is not forever. It degrades and falls apart. Leather is a much better choice, however, rubber is super sexy when you sweat. It creates pools of sweat on Mistresses body massaging her oh so sensually.
Be Brave Be Proud Be Kinky
Now that you have a little understanding and a peek into the kink world which is where you belong, Take a deep breath, step into the scene and be brave. You are entering warrior territory. How to be a dominatrix requires courage and the ability to lead and take charge. How to be a submissive requires as much courage. To be the perfect submissive you will be well-groomed, clean, intelligent, and willing to be a kneeling foot slave upon demand. Your application to Mistress will determine if you get to serve her in the fashion she demands. Imagine being collared and on a leash as you follow behind rather heels in your leather harness. Did you know being accepted by a powerful dominatrix is the most honored of positions? Are you ready to step into a world of pain and pleasure? Then follow me.
Femdom Erin XOX
